February 16th, 2009

It is happy to help others

It is happy to help others    
On National Day of 2006, introduced by the friend, the skill of high school of one that study in nonlocal preschool teacher's school tests girls and returns to the hometown, to study the piano and vocal music in my training class.
This girl has sheer individual character, the sound is eight degrees high while speaking, show off, the feeling for somebody looks like a thick thick big guy that drew.
Heard from her, " her piano and vocal music level were one of the best in their classes. " However, when checking, really make me shocked, foundation based on a weak economy of her piano is bad, the level of the vocal music is in a complete mess even more, there is no art of composition at all. Know whom teacher teach problematic, or whom oneself study there's something wrong with really. Have
Section one period, where have a class, standardize behavior of her, abolish talking very this. Will feel the fatigue very much after class, even there is feeling of a kind of collapse.
From teaching for more than 20 years, girls who has the typical personality like this are still really not many one that saws.
The girl has her advantages too, often express concern for the teacher, cares about other classmates very much too, though the family is very difficult, she has been keeping the simple and honest style all the time.
Remember that there is a visit to the parents, the predicament of heaving in sight really puts me to jump, five persons of old and young three generations live in small suite of more than ten square meters, two beds of inner room have already accounted for the space of most, fewer than the vacant lot two meters wide and a piano is put, this is the most luxurious furnishing of whole family. Father supports the whole family by making money for others by car, it is said the money used to buy the musical instrument is partially borrowed from relative, it is such a poor family, sincere parents, in order to realize daughter's " dream " to conservatory of music All of it of inclining, really " has pity on the love of parents all over the world " . After visiting the parents, like pressing a big stone in my heart that day. How can train the sensible girl very to be Germany skill pairs of strong fragrance useful, have become responsibility on my shoulder.
The ones that spoke familiarly are good; It takes ten years to grow trees, but a hundred to rear people. Shoulder have one responsibility, getting more one work hard. In the classroom since then, the not merely patient and careful one of mine teaches professional knowledge and skill; And pay great attention to the education of the outlook on life, what is I talked like a Dutch uncle to have any place wrong to discover her is pointed out. Often have a heart-to-heart talk with her, work as teacher and the mother both, tries hard to help her in life too. Time is not defeat by and have rookies, the girl's academic program and obvious improvement of having gradually of the thought.
In this world, everyone can not say clearly in some things, under the influence of social great environment, the girl was last May "  Job-hop " . As to this, can not say in my heart what flavour it is. Think: Having paid so much sweat, the efforts to speak clearly   That was brought is such a result. Odd months later, these is faded from memory under the function of time gradually windingly unhappied.
One day after one year, the girl calls, say that will see me, because I was busy with painting at that time, " has no time after saying sentences. " The girl " oh" ,then say: "Teacher, you are busy, will go to see you again in a couple of days. " Put down the telephone, not thinking one's own cold attitude is, that unpleasant thing is put in the psychology.
For a moment, girl coming hurriedly, after entering the room, say in a low voice: "Teacher, I have not had good mark in college entrance examination, what is to be done? The words have not been finished yet, her orbit is red. Reply reading or drop out of school? The family is in great confusion, parents can not take out an idea either.
"I let my mother look for you, but my mother says which still has the face to meet you again. I have to toughen one's scalp to come by oneself "  . Looking at girl's eager expression that seeks help, that a little in the heart was so unhappy as to disappear in a flash soon at this moment in the past.
I think, the girl needs very great courage to look for me on condition that seeks help without the door, this must not stand by and do nothing oneself just to one's own trust and reliance. Then, after listening to her making the situation clear, through analyzing, I help her to contact Changsha voluntarily, several art colleges such as Changchun, Shandong, busy with three days, have implemented and originally saved a focal point and become the teaching school at last.
The happy smile has emerged on girl's face. She has made a bow deeply when at parting, and the affectionate one says: " the teacher, just have sense of safety with you " .
Looking at the figure that she went far, I experienced suddenly the wind of the night of summer was so fresh and cool, so gentle. Ah, it is happy to help others. 

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